Welcome to Wilco Wednesday! If you are a new around these parts, “Wilco” is Army-speak for “Will Comply.” Think of it as saying “Roger, God. Got it. Will do.” So that is what Wednesday here at 7 Days Time is all about– exploring his decrees and seeking guidance for what complying with Him looks like in everyday life. The best part? He loves us for who we are, not what we do. Remember: He doesn’t want perfection, just obedience. Share. Enjoy. Interact. Welcome today’s guest blogger, my dear friend and our courageous PWOC president, Carriann Lane.
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“Why can’t you just let it go?!”
I saw exasperation and frustration on her face. I knew she was ready to blow – her raised voice was a fair indication. I understood what her emotion was, I just didn’t understand why talking was so aggravating. I was about 11 years old, and I knew I should let it go …but, of course, I did not. An answer was not what my mouth got me that day, but I was learning something.
“Why can’t you just let it go?!”
I saw anger and irritation on his face. He was about to flip his lid, thanks to my questioning.
I asked: “Where did you hear that? Are you sure that’s true?”
He heard: “You are lying.” “That’s dumb. You’re dumb.” “I don’t respect you.”
I was about 20 years old, and I understood how he was feeling, but again, why he felt it was a mystery.
A new question replaced the others: “Why can’t I just let it go?” Why does getting it right matter so much to me?
This week, I found myself asking this again. [Read more…]
